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Posted on 07/25/2010

Does making the right moves at the right time always create an amazing lover out of an ordinary man?

Are you all geared up to turn your bed into some adventurous playfield? Just go through the article for making your nights remarkable - I found it on the AOL page and wanted to share with you;-)

-Start the game of lovemaking early in the night, preferably in the evening, because you may need a good sleep after an hour of hot sex.

- Try to know her, her likings and her intimate desires before taking her to the bed. Developing chemistry with your lover is essential. The way you make love to someone or the sexy whispers you pour into her ear may not go too well with another person. One woman’s turn ons can be turn off in case of the others.

- Concentrate on one partner at a time.(YES!!! I WOULD AGREE 100 times on that one!!) Don’t try to sleep around with several people simultaneously. Otherwise, you may end up applying the same sexual techniques on everybody. This can result to disastrous consequences. The matters of sex and sexuality are so subjective and vary so much from person to person that if you start generalizing them, you may hit the roadblock.

-Think about your past sexual encounters and how your partners responded to your various sexual advances. Previous experiences play a significant role in forming the future relationships. Always try to learn from your past mistakes(100 points for that one too!!))))

-For indulging into some mind-blowing sexual activities, choose the time when your partner is absolutely free and select the place where she can be most comfortable.

-Don’t get robotic and monotonous while making love. Ignite the passion by showering compliments on her various body parts. Ask her affectionately what she likes the most about your body.

-Keep on talking on arousing topics while having sex. Otherwise, you and your partner won’t be able to obtain the ultimate pleasure of sex and it will become a dull and routine activity.

-Don’t forget to take necessary precautions before doing it. Having condoms and other such stuffs means that you are a propagator of safe sex and this quality of yours can surely give your partner instant relief from all tensions that may arise after spending a stimulating session of sex.

-Never force yourself on her, begin in a slow and seductive way and then, catch the momentum gradually.

- Caress her whole body bit by bit; kiss every inch part of her body. Try to master the art of kissing. You should make her feel like a princess. (OK - THIS IS MY FAVORITE!)

- Indulge yourselves into lots of foreplay. Some exciting moments of foreplay can certainly pave the way for great sex.

-Explore each other’s bodies little by little. Undress yourself and your partner step by step. Don’t take all your clothes off at one go. Make the whole session as prolonged as possible.

- Try to read her body language. Do the things that are giving her maximum pleasure again and again. (DO TRY THAT ONE!! SHE WILL THANK YOU OVER AND OVER! it'sa promisss!)

-Be open to try out new and unique things. Don’t have sex just for the heck of it. Make it an exhilarating adventure.

-Cleaning your face, body and hands is essential before you kick off action. Spray the perfume that makes her crazy for you. Both of you can enjoy a shower together before initiating the actual action.

-Keep on whispering sweet and sexy (sometimes, dirty too!) notes into her ears. Use words that stimulate her the most. Make her giggle too often ( nice one;-)!!

-Observe each of her moves and moans minutely.

-Floor her with your attitude - the attitude of an honest and genuine lover. Be spontaneous in all your actions.

-Give her adequate time to get her emotionally connected with you. Massage her legs and play with her hairs to make your beloved stirred.

DID YOU KNOW that women’s hormone level is highest in the evening, they enjoy sex most during those hours?

Lastly, ask her whether she is satisfied. Ask yourself too, because a dissatisfied person can never satisfy his partner.

So ladies !! are we right? or are we right?


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Atlmodel
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Posted on 08/03/2010

BRAVO SevenWhispers ! IT WAS NICELY DONE!



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Posted on 08/02/2010

True that, I am single and dating and I guess that it is easy to figure that out. I do not own this nickname just for its auditive resonance and I wouldn't even join a dating site if I would've been in a LTR or even married, dont you think?

As for the marriage experience, you are right, but I will quote one of my friends who leads a 15 years marriage:
"When I put that sexy lingerie on and start dancing slow, or tease his lap with my moves, when I bend, when I entertain his senses, when I stimulate taking my time to perfect his imagination, break the boundaries of his mind with what I have, than I feel him changing his savage and cold attitude towards my all, I feel him warmer, playfull, I feel him falling in love again, and I take it all!!!"
So, I suggest fairplay once again.



Macte animo! Generose puer sic itur ad astra.

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Posted on 07/30/2010

Alt dont take this all too seriously they guys are entitled to their opinion and we are all adults and can take it. This isnt a kindergarden and we all dont have to play nicely. You must realise also that 4Ws is a serial teaser and allways amusing. We have to be careful not to be too beige on here. Theres no fun in that now is there??



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Posted on 07/28/2010

Hey everyone - please be nice to the ladies!

Without reading a profile is that possible that SevenWhispers is still single and has a little experience in marriage, and wwww12345 was burned out with the divorce..wrong? right?.anyway LET"S PLAY NICELY!

Ladies! I love your statements...you know why? it's more of a balance and toward harmony ...Cheers for that!

Guys - its' not about women and man manual..really I don't think the is a formula of a happiness that written in the book, but there pretty good advices HOW TO...doesn't hurt to read them neither.

So keep talking and making YOUR statements! I think communication is a key to ANY partnership.



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Posted on 07/27/2010

I guess that every woman has an unique way of expressing her arousement, ecstasy, her intimate thoughts, towards the man with whom she shares these special moments, either by giving or receiving, being persuasive or being persuaded.

I guess that each of the partners are influenced also in a given situation, and of course situations differ from... the bed's soft covers to the bath tub's essential oils, just to give an example.

The advices are not wrong, the concept is wrong. Two lovers should play fair between the sheets. That is when the magic happens. This means established communication.

The fragility of a woman can take many shapes, and is found even in the couragious act of leading the man in bed, at least for a while, yeah, I know is the best when it is fairplay.

Its not about love, its about communication, being receptive to the smallest detail, courage, passion, initiative, a strong sex appeal also, a blend of the natural fragrances.



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Posted on 07/27/2010

Quoting Sophia2048

Mr. WWWW!!!!
It's not all about the woman. You right!!!!
"Ask not what your mate can do for you"...your own words!!! REALLY??? :):)
I heard..If you beg a man for a treat, he'll recoil: if you refuse him a treat, he'll burn to have it. Hunger is intensified by fasting!! Voila!! Agree...Or I belong to the Spanking Room again LOLO


There you go , with that twenty year old girl attitude.
I keep telling you and telling you, things turn around as you get older. It is the men that do the treating, not the women. Women do the begging and fasting. Sheeeee,, get it right.



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Posted on 07/26/2010

I agree with 4 Ws
Love and sex and lists dont go. Of course we all want great sex but going through a checklist is no guarantee you are going to get it and actually i believe it is wrong to have one. Sex should be a spontaneous joining of two people passionately involved with each other. Each giving and taking together joining together for mutual pleasure, and thats the point. Mutual. Its not all about the man giving and the woman taking , its a joint ballet. 4Ws is right. Its amazing what good lovers we can become with a partner who is paying attention. Men and WOMEN
Just a postscript..... how many of us women just lay there and take it eh?????? I know of at least three women who do that and then have the cheek to say their husbands are lousy in bed!
Food for thought ...no?



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Posted on 07/26/2010

Ooooh..NICE! LOVE THE REACTION Guys! I usually get some feed back from women..but I guess I hit the spot! That ones who are saying wrong - good luck on being selfish, @Timberoo - thank you on amazing statement...I think I will get to the point that most of my man in life were opposite of what the article is talking about;-)
I guess when woman lead it's lead everywhere and everything...yep in the bedroom too! Why am I single? ..hm let me think - I"M NOT!
I don't remember being single..not at all..but remember being lonely THAT"S for sure..Don't you know that 57% of American families are having sexless life? and I must say economy has NOTHIGN TO DO WITH THAT! it didn't happened over night...it's took a time to deliver...
So keep talking! I would like to hear your opinion..I'm trying to understand how to skip the dating part - so to me it's easier that way -I can be every guy's date that way!(because I realised if I would say yes to every date than my kids will be lonely for a long time and my modeling agency will kick me out..and my Event Business will be lost in space...no kidding)
So why not date on line? No meaningless conversations,no money waist for you...(since most of man think that women loves man for money - hm WRONG! women love man, that can make them! (go date yourself ugly and jobless ;-)
I love honest conversation and open to hear what you would like to say....Sex and the city kind of girl (I even took the test and I"m Carry- never mind if you've never seen it!;-)
Hugs& Love,

ATlnata Model...btw I'm Olga - nice to meet YA ALL!


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Posted on 07/26/2010

Unbelievable, in this article the male must do everything while the female must WAIT for everything. Following these advices, 1 by 1 and step by step would definetly be boring. Why not mixing them? Yes, a top lover is jammin' and is not following written rulles, but the "vibrations" of his partner in crime.



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Posted on 07/26/2010

Wrong..
It's not all about the woman.
Ask not what your mate can do for you,, ask what you can do for him.
Which is rarely done now days.
You might be surprised how good a lover he becomes when you become a giver, not a taker.



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Posted on 07/26/2010

The picture I posted says -

Love - it's when you touch his hand, but feel his heart ... (sorry it's in Russian);-)



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